10 x BETTER

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10x Better

1. You are better suited for God's purposes, because He is the chief beneficiary of marriage

2. You now think community (not selfishly) of which you and yours are a necessary part

3. Your circle of friends has dwindled to the real ones who are able to bear not only you but your dependents as well

4. People trust you better, because, at least you have a surety in your spouse

5. You are better respected because "Caring for  Another Me" is written all over you

6. You approach to conflict and decisions better because you are always managing another opinion at home

7. You have a home now, because your spouse must live somewhere that is yours

8. Your health is better managed because the fast food people don't trust you fully any longer

9. Your family is now larger and your culture richer because you now have at least this-in-law and that-in-law, in addition

10. Your offspring has started multiplying because the skill of raising children once born naturally flows to others without charge

Indeed, he who finds a wife has found a good thing! A girlfriend will just reverse all the above.

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