KNOWLEDGE FOR MARRIAGE

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You see, knowledge is acquired, so if you don't have it, just make effort to get it. You will rejoice if you do. 

The essential  knowledge needed to make marriage a joy is as follows, according to 1 Peter 3:1-7 and Eph. 5: 23-5: 

1. Knowledge of God - So that you don't make yourself or your spouse the ultimate source and standard in the home

2. Knowledge of Other Gender - Since we have different physical and social needs and expectations

3. Knowledge of Sharing - Because in marriage you give your spouse your all not some of what you have

4. Knowledge of Nurturing - What are you going to use to build your spouse up  and how are you going to go about it?

5. Knowledge of How to Settle Quarrels -  Because there is bound to be friction, quarrels are the major relationship destroyers

#WIFJ

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