RUTH WAS RIGHT
Why Mature Women need to take more of the Initiative towards Marriage On the few occasions that I have hinted at this, I have received the wide-eyed exclamation, “What, me a woman to propose marriage to a man?!” Yet how many men would one see at prayer camps praying to get a wife? When men are ready to marry, they literally walk out and bring a wife home! Is it thus not unfair that women do not (not cannot) exercise similar (not the same) initiative? Well, any unfairness in the matter cannot excuse the women from the blame of failing to take the right initiative. This is because women can exercise such initiative in their own fashion, as the remarkable story of Ruth in the Bible illustrates. You may read Ruth chapter four for the full details, but here I have enough space for just some provocative thoughts on why such initiative is needed: 1. It is not forbidden by the Bible, but it requires a lot of wisdom. This is one reason why a mature woman is better placed than a novice to c...